The Anti-Social Century
If you read only one long article this month, it should be The Anti-Social Century by the The Atlantic.
I planned to write about tribalism for a long time, as it bothers me a lot and often puts me in trouble. Unfortunately, most people think in tribes, such as “I’m a Democrat”, “I’m a Republican”, or “You’re either with us, or against us”. Something similar also exists here in Hungary. When I agree with something that others also support, those people think that I belong to their tribe. However, as soon as I disagree with them about something, those same people immediately think that I belong to another tribe. But nothing could be further from the truth–I do not belong to any tribe. If I agree on something with the Democrats, it does not mean that I reject everything what the Republicans say. And the same is true the other way round.

FreeBSD: The power to serve
And this applies not just to politics, but to all aspects of life, including IT. Just think about my operating system affiliations. I consider myself a FreeBSD guy at heart. Still, I use openSUSE as my main OS on my laptop, as it provides the best installation and hardware support (often better than Windows) and has most of the software I need. My colleagues have a lot more trouble using the same company laptop with other operating systems. That said, I also use Windows, even if my title is “open-source evangelist”: Teams and PowerPoint for work, while Capture One and Ableton for my hobbies. And even if I use FreeBSD, openSUSE and Windows as my daily drivers, most of my friends are from the Fedora / RHEL (& compatibles) community, as most syslog-ng users use CentOS and friends, which means that I spend most of my time with those people. Would it help in any way if I embraced a tribal mindset for the various Linux distros or operating systems? Certainly not.
Long story short: Forget tribalism and be social! The article in The Atlantic describes many changes that led to this situation. If we are aware of these, we can hopefully reverse the trends.